Comments on: Why Do I Care by Christopher http://turning40.net/why-do-i-care-by-christopher/ It's All About the Journey Mon, 06 Feb 2012 13:15:00 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: soontobe40 http://turning40.net/why-do-i-care-by-christopher/comment-page-1/#comment-741 soontobe40 Mon, 19 Apr 2010 19:37:16 +0000 http://turning40.net/?p=247#comment-741 I realize this is two years old, but I feel the same as Christopher in his last paragraph. I think it's perfectly ok to want to feel sexy and/or attractive no matter our age. Society focuses so much on looking youthful that it starts to hit you (it did me, at any rate) that you don't look that young, and never will again.<br><br>I think we have to rewrite our personal beliefs about what is attractive. So I have lines on my face...I can still smile and laugh naturally, which my boyfriend likes. :) I know I can work to get in better shape, can dress in ways that make me feel good about myself, etc. Changing our mindsets can accomplish a lot with how we feel about ourselves. I realize this is two years old, but I feel the same as Christopher in his last paragraph. I think it's perfectly ok to want to feel sexy and/or attractive no matter our age. Society focuses so much on looking youthful that it starts to hit you (it did me, at any rate) that you don't look that young, and never will again.

I think we have to rewrite our personal beliefs about what is attractive. So I have lines on my face…I can still smile and laugh naturally, which my boyfriend likes. :) I know I can work to get in better shape, can dress in ways that make me feel good about myself, etc. Changing our mindsets can accomplish a lot with how we feel about ourselves.

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