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Why Do I Care by Christopher

Posted on : 03-05-2008 | In : Health/Fitness, Something Missing |138 views

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I think it is very telling that there is a site started just two years ago called ‘turning40′. I think our generation is  “insistent”, in some ways, of not having the turning 40 stigma. I mean didn’t MTV just celebrate an anniversary?

I turn 40 in 5 days and I asked a bunch of people for a list of all the things I should do in the next 5 days that would be socially unacceptable for me to do after I turn 40. The only thing that came up was “take dirty pictures”. ;)

I am very happy with how my life has turned out. However, one of my goals in life was to reach that point…. no matter WHERE I was in life at any given time. That’s all we all really want is to just be happy regardless of circumstances.

The only thing I am NOT happy with is my weight. I lift heavy weights alot so I have sort of a football player look to me, but, I do carry more fat than I want. But on the other hand, I think, WHY DO I CARE? I have the most amazing wife in the world, awesome kids, and a fun life. Why do I care if I’m ’sexy’? BFD! Right? Now I just have to convince myself of that. :-)

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  • soontobe40
    I realize this is two years old, but I feel the same as Christopher in his last paragraph. I think it's perfectly ok to want to feel sexy and/or attractive no matter our age. Society focuses so much on looking youthful that it starts to hit you (it did me, at any rate) that you don't look that young, and never will again.

    I think we have to rewrite our personal beliefs about what is attractive. So I have lines on my face...I can still smile and laugh naturally, which my boyfriend likes. :) I know I can work to get in better shape, can dress in ways that make me feel good about myself, etc. Changing our mindsets can accomplish a lot with how we feel about ourselves.
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