I am turning forty in 8 days. I am hoping this decade will be easier than the last. My journey thus far has been challenging. It has however, made me strong, confident, beautiful and most of all grateful.

I am the mother of an 18 year old daughter and a 16 year old son. I raised them alone, and I am proud of the people they have become, and honored to be their mother.

I survived Melanoma and Hodgkin’s disease with grace.

I worked full time as a nurse, continued my education to finally complete a Bachelor’s degree all the while raising my family.

I always cooked dinner.

I loved other men, but never settled for less than I deserved.

I was diagnosed as Bipolar when I was 38. Truly the best thing that has ever happened to me. I finally had answers and was able to forgive myself.

I built a beautiful circle of friends.

I had a stroke. I am fine.

I had back surgery. I am fine.

I met the man of my dreams at 39.

Yes, my forties will be wonderful.