Turning 40 - It’s All About the Journey

By Myke on Oct 10, 2008 | Reply

I turned forty last month and it has brought in a depression I cant seem to shake. i am starting toquestion things I never did before. I guess Im experiencing the bad side of it…feeling older and being viewed that way. Any suggestions appreciated!

By Al on Nov 20, 2008 | Reply

I will be 40 next July… I’m not in a relationship, don’t own my own home, haven’t got any children (don’t want any!), and i’m currently unemployed!
Sounds bad eh?!
My life previously has been great, i’ve lived my life how i’ve wanted, travelled, had many great experiences, met many great people, i’ve been free! Oh, and i don’t feel or look my age either!
Now i’m starting to panick… shouldn’t be having this much fun… should be more responsible, have a morgage, job, husband blah blah blah!!
So yeah, down in the dumps! I know i shouldn’t be comparing myself to others and be bogged down by what society says, so i’m going to try and shake these thoughts away and get back to being ME again!!
40 is a fresh start so let’s welcome it!

By Lisa on Nov 25, 2008 | Reply

Lisa, dreams will happen if you open yourself up and let them. 5 years ago I was 35, single, living in another country with debts & nothing to call my own. I had resigned myself to the fact that I may mever get married or have children (I desparately wanted children). My mother gave me some sound advice, just relax for a change and have some fun, enjoy life. So I did. I started casually dating a man I worked with & we accidently fell pregnant! I left him in the UK and travelled home to Oz with no job, no money, no car, no home & was scared out of my head. Luckily I had the most amazing family to fall on.
I turn 40 this week. My son is 4 1/2, the father of my son & I got back together and were married a year ago. We still don’t own a home, but we have come a long way and are happy. Our next dream is to have another baby and at 40 I am terrified but also excited. And our big dream is to still own our home.
Heh we started later in life, but we had fun along the way and we know who we are now and what we want.
I always said I would rather be happy alone, then unhappy with someone. Live your life for you, the way you want and do whatever you need to to fullfill yourself, your dreams will come true…..some of us just have to wait a bit longer. Be happy.

By APM on Jan 1, 2009 | Reply

I’m so glad I came across this blog. I’ll be turning 40 in June of 2010. I just broke up with a boyfriend recently, in a dead end job and I sometimes wondered if it’s too late for me to achieve my dreams of a career, husband and children. I try to shake that low feeling off because I know I can still achieve my dreams but I can’t help but question that. Thanks for the encouraging posts I will be coming back here more often.